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Wednesday, October 19, 2011

For Moses Model Churches

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For those wondering about Moses Model churches, in particular Calvary Chapel churches, this site , Calvary Chapel Abuse , takes a look at th...
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Monday, July 4, 2011

Religious Cults Info

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This blog focuses on aledged spiritually abusive practices of Word of Faith Fellowship in North Carolina, but includes links to other spiri...
Tuesday, June 7, 2011

The agony of seeing spiritual abuse for what it is

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On a forum post, a Harold Camping follower rides the spiritual roller coaster so many spiritual abuse victims find themselves on: defending...
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Monday, June 6, 2011

Covering your Pastor's Nakedness

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In Predators in the Pulpit , Chris Efinda, on the Bereans blog, talks about the doctrine of covering your father's nakedness . In spirit...
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Thursday, February 3, 2011

Matthew 18

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Provender's links to a cogent treatise on Matthew 18 and spiritual abuse http://communiosanctorum.com/?p=96 called Principles, not Proce...

New book on Spiritual Abuse

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Dr. Barbara Orlowski has written a book on spiritual abuse, and especially healing after the fact. Check out the reviews on Amazon . It loo...
Thursday, July 22, 2010

Sometimes they see

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Jana and Barry Bishop confess to enabling an abusive church leadership and offer an apology to spiritual abuse victims. Barry's post is ...
Thursday, April 1, 2010

When pastors interfere with a marriage

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This article, A Word to the Wives , explores the dangers that happen when a pastor intrudes into the sacred bond of a man and wife. It's...
Thursday, January 7, 2010

Rick Ross Forums

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   Called Cult Education Forums , these boards are for people who are involved, or were previously involved, in abusive churches and cults t...
Monday, January 4, 2010

Kira Love Counseling

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Kira Love Counseling Services Kira, a former spiritual abuse victim and now a counselor, will provide counseling sessions, in some cases by...
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Breaking the Chains: Overcoming the Spiritual Abuse of a False Gospel

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If you ever wondered why people stay in cults, Shari Howerton’s Breaking the Chains: Overcoming the Spiritual Abuse of a False Gospel gives...
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Sunday, December 20, 2009

Paranoia and vision-driven churches

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From Pajama Pages , this observation about modern "visionary" leaders. A key line: When followers must completely sell out to the...
Saturday, December 19, 2009

When leadership apathy encourages spiritual abuse

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I found this link on FBCJAXwatchdog's blog . Pajama pages blog chronicles a horrific series of acts church members did to a Christian ...
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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Newspaper in California covers spiritual abuse

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A major newspaper in California covered the issue of spiritual abuse focusing on several families from different churches in the Sacramento ...
Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Manipulation in Churches

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When Geocities folded in October, a very important site on spiritual abuse  from Rest Ministries was no longer accessible. Before it disappe...
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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Wicked Shepherds

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Wicked Shepherds site deals with spiritual abuse mostly among Reformed Baptist churches. It includes a pretty decent checklist of spiritua...
Monday, November 23, 2009

The Loveliness of God Amidst Pain

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A Malaysian blog on spiritual abuse, Messy Christian , points out how hard it is on abusees when "friends" who've never experi...
Monday, November 16, 2009

Ex-members of church say pastor abused his power

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Radiant Life Church The Sacramento Bee highlights a story about spiritual abuse in California. Members bought houses close together on the ...
Monday, November 9, 2009

Silly Women

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Here is a video (audio, really) on the subject of "silly women," refering to 2 Tim 3:6, about abusers creeping into houses and bri...
Monday, October 19, 2009

Dimly Lit

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A post emphasizing the abuses that occur when love is forgotten.

Red Flags

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RED FLAGS is a Provender post that explores how some churches devolve into dangerous places. It combines ideas from several spiritual abuse...
Sunday, September 27, 2009

Antidotes to Spiritual Abuse

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This site offers a nice, clear list of common spiritually abusive statements -- and responses from scripture -- in an easy-to-read format.
Monday, September 21, 2009

Spiritually Abusive Vocabulary

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Two articles on the language of spiritual abuse. I just discovered this one on the Battered Sheep site called What Language Does your Church...
Saturday, September 19, 2009

Con Artist Pastors

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Con Artist Pastors? The Persecutors is a series on the African Bereans blog . It looks at many different aspects of abusive leaders and the...
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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

If you don't like it, why don't you just leave?

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Why don't you just leave? This question comes to anyone confronting spiritual abuse in their group. In this case, the question is handle...
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Saturday, September 12, 2009

Are you enabling an abusive church leader?

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Is one of your main roles in the church acting as a dealer for a narcissistic church leader's ego-feeding needs? Are you inadvertently a...
Wednesday, September 9, 2009

Video Resources on Spiritual Abuse

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These links are to video presentations by Jeff VanVonderen, co-author of the groundbreaking work The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse . Title...

Provender

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The regular Provender site includes links to resources on spiritual abuse and cult-like behaviors in churches and groups. It also includes a...
Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Abusive, Manipulative Relationships

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Covert-aggressive personality is a disorder that could be behind abusive behaviors in some church leaders. Off a link at Under Much Grace bl...
Friday, September 4, 2009

The Bereans

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A blog with tremendously astute insights into spiritual abuse called The Bereans discusses many aspects of church leaders gone wrong. A post...
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Thursday, August 13, 2009

God works even in dangerous places

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If people are saved at my church, how can it be spiritually abusive? This article from truthguard.com points out that God can work in the ...
Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Restoring the Heart blog

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Restoring the Heart blog summarizes aftereffects of spiritual abuse mentioned in VanVonderan and Johnson's The Subtle Power of Spiritua...

Ten Characteristics of Abused and Wounded Christians

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Ten Characteristics of Abused and Wounded Christians , from Restoring the Heart blog, summarizes aftereffects of spiritual abuse mentioned i...

Cults and Aberrant Groups

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The web resource Cults and Aberrant Groups provides links to several articles on cults and cult-like churches or groups. Titles of articles ...
Monday, August 10, 2009

Sociopathic leaders?

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Unfortunately, not always open to public view Characteristics of a Sociopath, quoted in a now private, brave blog of survivors from a cult-...

Turning Pastors to gods

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When has Authority Gone Too Far? This article, from Battered Sheep, highlights the unhealthy way we've turned pastors to gods. It inclu...
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Mind Control

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Another site that shows the techniques abusers use, and compares them to mind control techniques used on prisoners of war, is this from Marg...

Common Characteristics of How Cults Operate

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Common Characteristics of How Cults Operate: Thoughtful list that pinpoints techniques that cults, and controlling churches, use to capture...
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churchabuse.com

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churchabuse.com includes decent articles, especially on recovery from spiritual abuse -- as well as other resources. Article titles include...

When the pastor says, "I know your heart"

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This site sees Spiritual Abuse as a form of divination, when leaders pretend to know your mind, heart or motives. A unique angle. Never real...
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I Know Your Heart

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Does your pastor pretend he "knows your heart"? Divination, Is It Real or Fake? by churchabuse.com , shows that the little mind t...

The Insidious Harm of Spiritual Abuse

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This brief and clearly organized article from Australia in pdf format called The Insidious Harm of Spiritual Abuse cuts to the heart of the ...
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Spiritual Abuse as Idolatry

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What god are you worshiping in a spiritually abusive church? That is the question Dale Ryan seeks to answer in his article: If your god is n...

Use of Flattery in Spiritual Abuse

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Many abusive pastors use flattery to manipulate. This article from Wittenberg Gate explores the danger of flattery.
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Battered Sheep

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Battered Sheep Ministries: This site is a treasure trove of spiritual abuse resources. It provides links to various articles on spiritual a...

Clare's Blog

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This Australian site Clare's Blog : Clergy Abuse Australia , (also drawing on The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse ) sums up spiritual ab...

Narcissism in the Pulpit

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Narcissism in the Pulpit , includes a wealth of good information about what's behind a leader's need to control abusively. (The spoo...

Spiritual Abuse

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Spiritual Abuse by Scott Nicloy, a Salvation Army pastor. This article explores reasons behind spiritual abuse and the sometimes unintended...

Characteristics of a Spiritual Abuser

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Discovered at Under Much Grace blog is this perceptive collection of abuser traits - culled from several sources - entitled Characteristics...

Fringe Churches

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Voices from the Fringe is a good place to see what kinds of extremes spiritual abuse can lead to. Ron Enroth, author of Churches that Abuse...
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Friday, August 7, 2009

Barnabas Ministry

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Barnabas Ministry offers a well-organized site that helps someone in a questionable church decide if their church is leaning toward the unhe...

Voices from the Fringe

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Voices from the Fringe is a good place to see what kinds of extremes spiritual abuse can lead to. Ron Enroth, author of Churches that Abuse...

Quivering Daughters Blog

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When women are primary targets of a spiritually abusive system, it helps to have support from other women. From a distinctly female perspect...
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VM Life Resources

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VM Life Resources . This blog emphasizes recovery and is directed at the hardcore cult experience. It includes resources for identifying spi...

What Really Matters blog

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From Set Free on What Really Matters blog is this perspective on the gains you can experience if you leave an abusive group: Here are some s...

Spiritually Authority Weirdness

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One of the best restatements of the thought of a person tempted to get involved in an authoritarian church is this from Spiritual Authority ...

Under Much Grace

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Another blog with a panoply of resources Under Much Grace is frequently updated and lists many helpful observations about spiritual abuse. ...
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The Cult Next Door

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A well-designed and aesthetically creative blog on the topic is this one, called The Cult Next Door: Spiritual Abuse in Plain Sight. The blo...

People of the Lie

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People of the Lie , by Scott Peck includes helpful insights on different aspects of "evil people" including those responsible for ...
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Not of my Making

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Not of My Making by Margaret Jones tells of a woman who endured a series of abusive situations including abuse from two churches. The autho...
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