Spiritual Abuse Survey

Church Abuse.com features a short checklist to help you determine whether your group or church is abusive or not. There are many such checklists online and they are all a little different. Some emphasize certain abusive behaviors and not others, while others will emphasize a different set of abusive traits. Abusive churches come in many varieties and will not likely match up exactly to any of these checklists. Still, they are helpful because they show that these behaviors are common.

Flattery and manipulation

Many abusive pastors use flattery to manipulate. This article from Wittenberg Gate explores the danger of flattery.